The drama triangle and asking for your needs

I believe that transformation in psychotherapy is when insight is achieved into one’s historical ways of operating in the world, that are not serving well, and personal qualities are harnessed to bring about change and a different way of behaving with other individuals. Therapists from different modalities will often seek to accuntuate the theoretical differences […]

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Men are at greater risk of physical illness from chronic anxiety

A major research study from the European College of Neuropsychopharmacology (ECNP) and the University of Cambridge reported on its findings earlier this week. The study involved tracking over 16000 Britons over a period of 15 years and found that men who suffered from anxiety were more at risk of dying from cancer as those men

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Why would hetrosexual men search for ‘shemale’ porn?

Whilst researching for my recent articles Why sexual fantasies can be healthy in a strong relationship and Are you he, she or non-binary in gender identity?, I came across some interesting data on human sexuality as a result of a recent publication on the search habits of men and women. Numerous authors over the years such as Nancy

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Digital detox from smartphone addiction

The latest Ofcom research into internet usage informs us that fifteen million UK internet users have taken steps to ‘digitally detox’ in an attempt to establish a more healthy balance between technology and ‘real life’. The Communications Market 2016 (August) is Ofcom’s thirteenth annual Communications Market report. The key findings from the latest report found that

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Making better decisions

I always find it interesting when people not trained in psychology adopt tools, techniques and insights from the field and start to practice them in their particular area. Sports coaches are increasingly using psychological insights to improve elite performance in individual and teams sports. Another area is the investment sector to boost one’s ability to

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My interview with Robin Shohet

Yesterday I had the opportunity to chat with Robin Shohet and discussed with him consultative supervision, how he understands appreciative enquiry and the nature of personal therapy and clinical supervision. Robin’s publications in the field of psychotherapy include the hugely influential book Supervision in the Helping Professions, which he co-authored with Professor Peter Hawkins, first published in

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